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 12th January 2021, 01:38 PM
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My 2 cents
I do feel that something happened behind the scenes and it wasn't just a 'I don't want to do this anymore'. I hope whatever it is sorts itself out as it would be such a shame if their friendship was ruined because of it. I genuinely believe they were friends - you couldn't fake it for that long. In terms of not tagging Jesy etc - this must have been an ask of hers / lawyers seeing as no-one (not even mutuals) tagged her in any of the posts about SM being number 1. |
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12th January 2021, 01:48 PM
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What doesn't kill you makes you stronger.
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It literally could be anything..
Mental Health is a hard one because no matter how much those without mental health issues try to understand they don't. It's so personal too, like I went through a couple of years of extreme Anxiety and my friends didn't understand how I could do the same thing one day and not the next. It's very difficult and no doubt there's been tensions building, people feel let down (Jesy/The Girls/Management) I think in time it will get resolved, a bit like a break up. It's a very sad time, when she left I just assumed she'd still be pro active with supporting Little Mix as an outsider so it's pretty unexpected from what I thought (I didn't expect her to be posting everyday but I did think given how close the girls seemed she would of said about the number 1, liked a couple of posts or gave them a shout out). This post has been edited by Mr. C. Joel: 12th January 2021, 01:49 PM |
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12th January 2021, 02:19 PM
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Low key I think, for now, Jesy wants to be away from anything Little Mix related so she can move on and be happy and to keep speculating and expecting more from her is a bit insulting to her.
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12th January 2021, 02:30 PM
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What doesn't kill you makes you stronger.
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QUOTE(365 @ Jan 12 2021, 02:19 PM)  Low key I think, for now, Jesy wants to be away from anything Little Mix related so she can move on and be happy and to keep speculating and expecting more from her is a bit insulting to her. To be fair though she was in Little Mix for 10 years I think we can freely discuss as fans this topic. With the greatest respect to Jesy and we all support her we're just talking as fans like we would anything else LM related. It's all opinions in here, no one is saying or telling her to do anything we're just discussing the aftermath. |
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12th January 2021, 02:48 PM
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QUOTE(Mr. C. Joel @ Jan 12 2021, 03:30 PM) To be fair though she was in Little Mix for 10 years I think we can freely discuss as fans this topic. With the greatest respect to Jesy and we all support her we're just talking as fans like we would anything else LM related. It's all opinions in here, no one is saying or telling her to do anything we're just discussing the aftermath. Sleuthing through who she follows online, conspiracy theories about her exit, going in circles discussing the relationship with the girls and their families is just strange behaviour. It's clear that this sort of attention and speculation is not what Jesy wanted — ironic how some fans can't see that. |
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12th January 2021, 02:51 PM
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I'm really worried about her mental health and her struggles with social media but did you see she unfollowed the neighbour of Perrie's aunt?!
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12th January 2021, 02:59 PM
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QUOTE(blacksquare @ Jan 12 2021, 02:51 PM) I'm really worried about her mental health and her struggles with social media but did you see she unfollowed the neighbour of Perrie's aunt?! I mean, a few Little Mix fans (who love her) on a random chart forum having a chat isn’t the same as every newspaper and online article in the country writing rumors about her and encouraging vile comments from the general public but do your thing. |
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12th January 2021, 06:18 PM
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QUOTE(blacksquare @ Jan 12 2021, 02:48 PM) Sleuthing through who she follows online, conspiracy theories about her exit, going in circles discussing the relationship with the girls and their families is just strange behaviour. It's clear that this sort of attention and speculation is not what Jesy wanted — ironic how some fans can't see that. It’s not strange behaviour, this is a forum which is designed for people to discuss. It’s odd that’s she’s unfollowing the girls family members but not the girls themselves or even little mix. Very odd indeed. |
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12th January 2021, 06:30 PM
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People are allowed to speculate, it's only natural. As silly as it may seem following/unfollowing people are public acts, especially when you can mute or just restrict, which I imagine she's probably done to the girls
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12th January 2021, 06:53 PM
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I’m not disputing healthy discussion — just gathered some of you were better than Dan Wootton.
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12th January 2021, 07:08 PM
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The mans a racist, self loathing, conspiracy theorist pushing harmful anti covid theories so I think you're being a little dramatic
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12th January 2021, 07:20 PM
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God certain people are so rude, we're all saying this respectfully and not bashing Jesy.
This is a forum and we can discuss this like anyone else, if you don't like it avoid the thread instead of being rude to us. |
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12th January 2021, 07:37 PM
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What doesn't kill you makes you stronger.
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QUOTE(blacksquare @ Jan 12 2021, 02:48 PM) Sleuthing through who she follows online, conspiracy theories about her exit, going in circles discussing the relationship with the girls and their families is just strange behaviour. It's clear that this sort of attention and speculation is not what Jesy wanted — ironic how some fans can't see that. You’re being so dramatic. How does speculating about the reasons behind her departure or whether the girls have fallen out detrimental to her mental health? We’re all respecting Jesy and her wish, No ones saying anyone’s done anything wrong just wondering what’s potentially happened if anything? Having been a fan for 10 years I don’t see the harm in this being a topic of discussion provided we’re all respectful. |
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12th January 2021, 07:54 PM
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QUOTE(Benji89 @ Jan 12 2021, 07:08 PM) The mans a racist, self loathing, conspiracy theorist pushing harmful anti covid theories so I think you're being a little dramatic Who is? |
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12th January 2021, 07:57 PM
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12th January 2021, 09:44 PM
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QUOTE(blacksquare @ Jan 12 2021, 03:51 PM) I'm really worried about her mental health and her struggles with social media but did you see she unfollowed the neighbour of Perrie's aunt?! The way I screamed LMAOOOO |
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12th January 2021, 10:32 PM
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I don’t think there actually is a respectful way to pick apart every move someone makes online. If you love Jesy so much and have been a fan for so long, how do you not realize that she’s an incredibly private person who hates that kind of stuff. No, you all aren’t saying anything nasty, but that doesn’t mean it should continue.
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13th January 2021, 02:15 PM
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QUOTE(Court @ Jan 12 2021, 05:32 PM) I don’t think there actually is a respectful way to pick apart every move someone makes online. If you love Jesy so much and have been a fan for so long, how do you not realize that she’s an incredibly private person who hates that kind of stuff. No, you all aren’t saying anything nasty, but that doesn’t mean it should continue. "She enjoys her privacy" but she's the one doing this publicly as public figure in public situation. Everything she does on that account is an official PR statement or should be stated otherwise, and what she's doing speaks volumes especially considering the more obvious signs of who to unfollow and outright speak are likely legally prevented. She is accountable for what comes when throwing herself in the fire and those she's asking to consume it are doing so, even if negatively. There is too far, but no it does not ban negative reactions and frankly simply seeing it for what it is to save her from mental anguish for simply talking about what she's asking people to do because her mental health when she's proving bullshit and neglect to it herself. |
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13th January 2021, 02:41 PM
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QUOTE(Roguelt @ Jan 13 2021, 09:15 AM) "She enjoys her privacy" but she's the one doing this publicly as public figure in public situation. Everything she does on that account is an official PR statement or should be stated otherwise, and what she's doing speaks volumes especially considering the more obvious signs of who to unfollow and outright speak are likely legally prevented. She is accountable for what comes when throwing herself in the fire and those she's asking to consume it are doing so, even if negatively. There is too far, but no it does not ban negative reactions and frankly simply seeing it for what it is to save her from mental anguish for simply talking about what she's asking people to do because her mental health when she's proving bullshit and neglect to it herself. Unfollowing Perrie’s cousin is not a PR statement and it’s laughable to think it is. I can’t even make sense of your second point but it basically seems like your blaming Jesy for any struggles she has with people obsessing over her life because, again, she unfollowed some people on Instagram? |
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13th January 2021, 02:54 PM
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QUOTE(Mr. C. Joel @ Jan 12 2021, 07:37 PM) You’re being so dramatic. How does speculating about the reasons behind her departure or whether the girls have fallen out detrimental to her mental health? We’re all respecting Jesy and her wish, No ones saying anyone’s done anything wrong just wondering what’s potentially happened if anything? Having been a fan for 10 years I don’t see the harm in this being a topic of discussion provided we’re all respectful. !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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