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13th January 2021, 03:58 PM
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"She enjoys her privacy" but she's the one doing this publicly as public figure in public situation. Everything she does on that account is an official PR statement or should be stated otherwise, and what she's doing speaks volumes especially considering the more obvious signs of who to unfollow and outright speak are likely legally prevented. She is accountable for what comes when throwing herself in the fire and those she's asking to consume it are doing so, even if negatively. There is too far, but no it does not ban negative reactions and frankly simply seeing it for what it is to save her from mental anguish for simply talking about what she's asking people to do because her mental health when she's proving bullshit and neglect to it herself. this is a very.... ugly thing to say |
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13th January 2021, 05:34 PM
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I don’t think there actually is a respectful way to pick apart every move someone makes online. If you love Jesy so much and have been a fan for so long, how do you not realize that she’s an incredibly private person who hates that kind of stuff. No, you all aren’t saying anything nasty, but that doesn’t mean it should continue. Agreed 100%."She enjoys her privacy" but she's the one doing this publicly as public figure in public situation. Everything she does on that account is an official PR statement or should be stated otherwise, and what she's doing speaks volumes especially considering the more obvious signs of who to unfollow and outright speak are likely legally prevented. Noooo. This is such a shit take, I'm sorry. It pisses me off that people seem to think that just because a popstar/celebrity is famous, it gives them a right to invade any little bit of privacy that star wants. She's not even leaving the house and being snapped/hounded by the press and yet people are concerned with who she is and isn't following on social media?She is accountable for what comes when throwing herself in the fire and those she's asking to consume it are doing so, even if negatively. There is too far, but no it does not ban negative reactions and frankly simply seeing it for what it is to save her from mental anguish for simply talking about what she's asking people to do because her mental health when she's proving bullshit and neglect to it herself. It's literally none of our business as to how she wants to deal with her time away from the spotlight and focus on herself. It's really upsetting to see that even after everything that happened with Britney, stars are constantly made to feel like they owe everyone every little bit of detail of what happens in their lives... just because "they wanted to be a star" or whatever. They wanted to be a popstar (or an actor/actress), not to be hounded by the press/have every little bit of their lives being torn apart by people. It's such a toxic trait and it's annoying that it's always been the case and things, don't seem to be changing, even now. It's got nothing to do with us as to who Jesy follows and how Jesy wants to handle this time. She'll come out with an interview/read all book if she wants us all to know what went off. I'm not surprised to see that she unfollowed family members because on Debbie's twitter (Leigh's mum) there was constant "Send our love to Jesy for us please" and Jesy probably found it easier to just cut off all methods of contact for a bit, as she tries to find some consistent happiness and work on her mental health... but again, we just don't know. So can we stop with the speculation please? We're literally turning into the people that Jesy is trying to get away from |
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13th January 2021, 06:01 PM
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Very that last sentence.
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13th January 2021, 06:27 PM
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On a more important note, Sweet Melody still slaps!
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13th January 2021, 09:39 PM
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Agreed 100%. So can we stop with the speculation please? We're literally turning into the people that Jesy is trying to get away from I’m sorry but I disagree. People are not slating Jesy. This is a forum is for discussion and is a thread about Jesy leaving the group. It’s natural that people wish to discuss this and highlight that things may not be as rosey as what some others wish to believe. Unless it’s bullying or unnecessarily rude, people shouldn’t be told what they can and can’t discuss when it’s related to the topic. |
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14th January 2021, 04:12 AM
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is my brain across your walls?
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I mean I'd argue a lot of what has been posted in this thread is unnecessarily rude lol ~
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14th January 2021, 06:14 AM
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I'm really worried about her mental health and her struggles with social media but did you see she unfollowed the neighbour of Perrie's aunt?! HAHAHAHA. OMG I SCREAMED!! I think we sometimes forget Little Mix is, and was for Jesy, a job. I am sure the girls care for each other, but at the end of the day, it's a job. I also would not constantly be thinking about my old job after I left it, especially not in the way Jesy had to leave. There is no reasons why she still would be posting about it, it's probably still raw and hurtful for her and I wish fans would respect that. And I mean, who cares who she follows on Instagram? Instagram is not even real live and tbh I'm baffled fans even know who follows who |
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16th January 2021, 01:10 PM
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HAHAHAHA. OMG I SCREAMED!! I think we sometimes forget Little Mix is, and was for Jesy, a job. I am sure the girls care for each other, but at the end of the day, it's a job. I also would not constantly be thinking about my old job after I left it, especially not in the way Jesy had to leave. There is no reasons why she still would be posting about it, it's probably still raw and hurtful for her and I wish fans would respect that. And I mean, who cares who she follows on Instagram? Instagram is not even real live and tbh I'm baffled fans even know who follows who I agree with the sentiment, although I wouldn't call it a "job", this was her dream. And people made her feel shitty for 10 years and she couldn't take it anymore, that's what is so very heartbreaking about this, she was bullied out of doing something she loved. (Sorry this wasn't me saying you were wrong, I just think calling it a job minimises how cruel the whole thing truly was xx) |
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16th January 2021, 02:27 PM
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I agree with the sentiment, although I wouldn't call it a "job", this was her dream. And people made her feel shitty for 10 years and she couldn't take it anymore, that's what is so very heartbreaking about this, she was bullied out of doing something she loved. (Sorry this wasn't me saying you were wrong, I just think calling it a job minimises how cruel the whole thing truly was xx) I think it’s really important that we remember that Jesy didn’t actually say that she left the band because of trolling - she left because of the pressures of being in a girl group, we all know that she struggled with video shoots/ comparing herself to the other girls etc. I’m not saying that the trolling she received didn’t play a part of course, but I just think it’s important that we don’t go down that road when we don’t actually know. |
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16th January 2021, 02:43 PM
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HAHAHAHA. OMG I SCREAMED!! I think we sometimes forget Little Mix is, and was for Jesy, a job. I am sure the girls care for each other, but at the end of the day, it's a job. I also would not constantly be thinking about my old job after I left it This argument does make me laugh. As if working 40 hours a week in an office is the same as literally being 25% of one of the UK's biggest girl groups of all time. There's a difference between you seeing your colleagues on a 15 minute break in the staff room and Jesy being attached to the hip with the other three pretty much 24/7 for nine years. (This wasn't an attack on whatever your profession is but it's quite clearly not the same thing) |
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16th January 2021, 03:17 PM
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This argument does make me laugh. As if working 40 hours a week in an office is the same as literally being 25% of one of the UK's biggest girl groups of all time. There's a difference between you seeing your colleagues on a 15 minute break in the staff room and Jesy being attached to the hip with the other three pretty much 24/7 for nine years. (This wasn't an attack on whatever your profession is but it's quite clearly not the same thing) Don't worry, I don't see it as an attack at all. And yes, ofcourse office live is different compared to being in a girlgroup, but still. Look at Girls Aloud, they have been together for years as well and when they split up they said something along the same lines. It IS their job, at least the part the girls show to the outside world. Who knows, maybe they are best friends behind the scenes and still talk constantly these days, but maybe not. Neither would be bad. I, at least before the pandemic ofcourse, saw my close colleagues more often than my best friends (as most people do I assume) and we share everything so I don't think the comparison is that strange (oh and.. biggest girlgroup? Spice Girls say hello ). |
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16th January 2021, 03:32 PM
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I agree with the sentiment, although I wouldn't call it a "job", this was her dream. And people made her feel shitty for 10 years and she couldn't take it anymore, that's what is so very heartbreaking about this, she was bullied out of doing something she loved. (Sorry this wasn't me saying you were wrong, I just think calling it a job minimises how cruel the whole thing truly was xx) On the flipside, if we're really going back in time, none of them had the dream of being in a grl group. They auditioned as solo singers because they wanted independent careers in entertainment. Given that truth its kinda remarkable that they stayed exclusively working together so long although obviously they did gel as a group. People also change a lot between ages 17-18 and the ages they are now. They will be very different people from who they were. I also feel like especially in this year spending every waking moment with the same people may have become more of an ask than in other years. |
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16th January 2021, 03:48 PM
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Don't worry, I don't see it as an attack at all. And yes, ofcourse office live is different compared to being in a girlgroup, but still. Look at Girls Aloud, they have been together for years as well and when they split up they said something along the same lines. It IS their job, at least the part the girls show to the outside world. Who knows, maybe they are best friends behind the scenes and still talk constantly these days, but maybe not. Neither would be bad. I, at least before the pandemic ofcourse, saw my close colleagues more often than my best friends (as most people do I assume) and we share everything so I don't think the comparison is that strange (oh and.. biggest girlgroup? Spice Girls say hello ). Did you miss the part where he says ‘one of the biggest’? |
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16th January 2021, 04:03 PM
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16th January 2021, 07:53 PM
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Jesy unfollowed perrie’s brother 👀😳
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16th January 2021, 08:31 PM
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16th January 2021, 09:59 PM
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Jesy unfollowed perrie’s brother 👀😳 That is strange. It's also strange she's not liking the girls photos and vice versa. If people can't handle this conversation don't read - we shouldn't be attacked for discussing things like this on a forum. We are not bashing Jesy or any of the girls, it is just really strange. I hope the girls are okay, i'd be devastated if they fell out. |
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16th January 2021, 10:31 PM
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I don’t think they have fell out but i don’t want to assume as we don’t know everything that happened behind the scenes. I imagine they are all still upset by this and it will take some time for it to be processed. They could still be messaging in the group chat they have but just aren’t interacting publicly as they know the newspapers will try and twist their words to come up with some fake drama stories or something lol.
I did think there would be some sort of interaction by now as Jesy has been fairly active but it could mean anything i suppose. |
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16th January 2021, 11:50 PM
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THE BLAZE *.*
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She posted saying she was bored on Instagram. I am already imagining the comments she'll be getting.
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17th January 2021, 12:02 PM
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Until she unfollows the actual members of little mix I don't think it means much.
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