"Girls" is a song from Rita Ora's upcoming second album slated to be released next year. The track, which features Charli XCX, Bebe Rexha and Cardi B, was performed by her, Charli XCX and RAYE on her set at BBC Radio 1's Big Weekend in May.
Ugh Cardi B
so is this being released now?? isn't she releasing the 50 shades songs with liam payne instead?
Delete Charli and Bebe of this and it can be a tune
Yaaaas Cardi, I'm here for it.
Omg Cardi!!!
LMAO CARDI!!
Omg dream team, hopefully this isn't another false start and it actually happens
Love how prominent Cardi is right now. Upcoming features with Rita Ora and Bruno Mars, new singles with Migos and G-Eazy and singles of her own. Very smart marketing.
Interesting features, wonder if this might get her some traction in US.
Surprised no one has mentioned the solo leaked demo yet...
The fact it sounds like Thunder tho :') It really needs remixing for the final version because :') :') :')
theres another updated snippet out there where you can hear charli and cardi and it sounds like such a bop!! im still so ready
Poor RAYE lol. Would be good to see Rita and Charli's US careers re-take off because of this one.
Would be kinda ironic if Cardi B gave them that shot considering their existing success there is for both of them off the back of Iggy Azalea, another flavor of the month female rapper.
She has a top 3 hit in the US...
I feel like Rita is semi known in the US but no one knows what for
Trust me she is well known here but not for her music...she has that celebrity status and she is always on some show and TV!!!
US discography
as lead
#62 How do we(Party)
#77 I Will never let you down
as featured
#3 Black widow
surprised at how poorly she's done, I really thought that Your song has charted
I think Your Song and Body On Me were both bubbling under but never went on Hot 100
Super late to this, but really Rita, Charli, Bebe, and Cardi B in one song was literally the pop girl dream collaboration that only pick from the Warner current artist roster. Low key wish Dua was there as well but whatever I can't wait to see how it turn out.
I'm tired of having to use the leaked demo, hurry with the real thing now pls
Not excited about Cardi B but hopefully she won't be too prominent and let the other 2 superior features get enough time for themselves
Anybody know when this is coming?
JUST RELEASE IT FFS
Surely the other girl she's referring to is one of Dua or Zara?
Cardi is who I'm thinking cos wasn't she rumoured at one point?
"miming a bump over her stomach" pretty much confirms Cardi!
UGH. Tired of waiting for this, just want it now.
Happy with Cardi being on it though.
https://mobile.twitter.com/subwayslut/status/987090066471358464
Absolutely dying at Cardi's tweet 🤣
Amazing :')
Bebe tweeted that she's in London today filming a music video. It has to be for this surely?
Bebe has said on her Instagram story that she's seeing Rita, and Rita has tagged Bebe in a reply which is just her winking it's coming *.*
Ready for the video to get scrapped and this to get push back again *.*
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Omg. Don't!
Kaj Jefferies has directed the video. Him and Rita have posted shots on their Instagram accounts.
Damn, gutted this has got Cardi on it. Hopefully it will have enough redeeming qualities to make it a decent track.
I would've thought this must be getting released in the next couple of Fridays now?!
Poor Charli get snubbed to direct it when she wanted to lmao
Rumoured to be released Friday 11th May! Fingers crossed. That's the date her tour begins too.
It's coming next Friday!!!
SO READY
Yaaaas, finally!!
That is not how Scrabble works, Rita xx
Wow! So great that “Bh”, “Ea”, “Br”, and “El” have landed such huge names for their debut!
And to think they said Infinity War Is The Most Ambitious Crossover Event In History
Three of my faves and Charli, hyped for this *.*
I've only really been able to tolerate Cardi B on her part in 'Finesse'.
I hope she's not doing her trademark awkward lisp on this.
For the sake of getting the album, I hope Cardi helps this to do something in the US
Official artwork:
I like that it's keeping with the theme of Your Song and Anywhere but the "s" is barely visible
OK this has now been circulating and Rita's changed her Facebook cover photo to it too, so it seems this could be the official cover! Muuuuuch better.
LOVE
Just give us the song.
First listen I wasn't sure.
Second listen I was lightly bopping.
Third listen and it's song of the decade.
Bebe sounds terrible, Charli sounds good, Cardi snapped. I think the verses are superior to the chours but the chorus will worm its way in to everyone's head eventually.
This is ok but pretty weak for the calibre of people on it. I usually don't mind Bebe but CHRIST what on earth is her verse? Perhaps this will grow but the best bit is Cardi's verse, the chorus feels flat and the Rita/Charli's bits are good enough I guess. It kinda still sounds like it's still the demo rather than a finished product of a huge pop song.
Modern Lady Marmalade this is certainly not.
I wanted the chorus to have more PUNCH to it but apart from that I’m absolutely loving it.
Bebe sounds terrible but that’s no surprise, Charli should’ve done her bit too.
Hoping this’ll be massive.
cancel bebe and this is a BOP
where are people listening?
Chorus is a bit meh but the rest isn't too bad, I feel like it definitely didn't need Bebe AND Charli - one or the other would've been fine.
Oh hello no
Oh Bebe :')
Bebe aside, I'm liking this. It's very Cher Lloyd - With Ur Love. I think it'll grow too once I've gotten over Bebe's verse :')
I don't like it .
Bebe ruins it
Should’ve been Rita Ora & Charli XCX ft. Cardi B
It's no Lady Marmalade...
The chorus is awful.
It's like Hayley Kiyoko gone wrong...
Charli honestly could have just done Bebe’s part and they could have kept her off this as she sounds horrible . If Rita wanted a 4th person they could have kept Raye on it and had her instead as she was on the orginal version !
RAYE would’ve been so much better than Bebe, but I guess she’s not big enough
Well Bebe sounds awful on this
Everything else is more polished than the demo which is good and Cardi's bit is a great addition. I'm just pissed at Bebe......why.......
not being funny but bebe’s verse wrecks the flow/energy of the song; she sounds like a goat with trapped wind
Catchy as hell chorus.
Well I actually liked this on first listen very instant *.*
Quite like this. Very obviously fishing for a US hit with it with Bebe and Cardi involved after their recent successes stateside, and that single cover that doesn't make EXPLICITLY clear that Rita, probably the least-known over there, is the lead artist.
It's no Anywhere, but I like it better than Charli's 'Boys'.
Too bad for RAYE.
I love Bebe’s voice on songs like Ferrari, but this just doesn’t suit her, she sounds like a Poundland Cher Lloyd in her first era Still a bop tho
It’s... a diet bop, but I really did expect more from such a stacked ensemble. It sounds too 2014 Charli XCX trying to do Bang Bang, which is weird bc 2018 Charli KILLED IT.
You can tell Bebe was just phoned in for this, it really could have been just Charli on the second verse.
I wonder if the music video will be more like Charli’s Boys or Drake’s Nice For What
This is BRILLIANT, everything I wanted from it so catchy and it doesn't feel try-hard either, which it easily could. Cardi is the best feature and I'd actually say I enjoy Bebe more than Charli (who, by the end, you could almost forget was on it). Y'all are going in too hard on Bebe.
I wish I liked this more than I did. It's catchy, sure, but I can't help but feel the talent involved could have come up with something so much better than this. Also, to me this sounds really... joyless? I don't sense anything celebratory/empowering here (which I assume is what they tried for). It's very clinical.
Very disappointing after Anywhere was that life affirming bop! I'm not against Girls being a hit because I'm always happy to see Rita doing well, but another part of me hopes this gets buried quickly so she can hopefully move on to something better.
I feel like the label has pinned hopes on this being a breakthrough moment for Rita in the US, that gives her the traction to warrant an album to eventually come out on the strength of a US hit, but I really can't see it.
Also this is very side eyes emoji~
One of the lyrics that really stuck out to me was in your opening verse: “I’m open-minded / I’m 50/50, and I’m never gonna hide it.”
[Laughs]
For you, personally, were you trying to share something with your fans about your own sexuality?
I knew people were going to look into it like that. I definitely said it because I can — and it was one of those things where, if I was 50/50…I’m not saying I’m “70/30.” … “I’m 50/50, and I’m not gonna hide it.” I’m not hiding what I am, who I am, if I wanna do this, if I wanna do that. That’s just how it’s gonna be.
For me and my career, this is definitely the most open-booked I’ve ever been, if that’s a word. I’m definitely an open book with this record, and I’m really proud of the support I’ve got with my fellow collaborators.
Would you consider yourself bisexual or fluid?
I think the way…If people look at it like that, it’s very narrow-minded, and I don’t think that’s what this record is. I don’t think that that even matters. Yeah.
http://people.com/music/rita-ora-releases-girls-bisexual-anthem/
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I'd be fine if the explanation of the song's meaning was roughly: "it's about having fun, perhaps on a night out, and you kiss your female friends but not necessarily in a sexually motivated way, but celebrating friendship and showing affection". I feel that's what Rita is skirting around with her rather meaningless explanation. However the "50/50" line is blatantly going to invite questions and speculation about her sexuality, so her playing coy about that and not really offering an explanation that makes any sense is a bit "um..." to me.
LOVEIT
This is getting worse rather than better for me on repeated listens Clinical and joyless is a great way to put it Jay! It just kind of plods along.
Ok so this gets better the more you listen to it for me anyway and once you get past Bebe’s part lol !
I love how much of an earworm the chorus is *.*
This is horrid. The bare-ass chorus, the clunky lyrics ('Kush Lovin' takes the cake), the awful mixing -- and perhaps the most offensive of all -- Bebe's verging-on-parody vocals. That's not even taking into account the fact that the entire premise of the song is absurd and ridiculously outdated. WHO greenlit this?
This is top 10 on US iTunes at 6 watch this be her biggest hit over there
I think those above tweets are looking way too deep into this track. It's fun, it's carefree and I don't think it's even remotely damaging. We don't know Rita's sexual preferences, for all we know she *could* be bisexual. Besides, in these days, haven't we all established that sexuality is not set in stone? I don't see what's so difficult about a "straight" girl enjoying kissing other girls when drunk. Similarly, I'd say the same about a lesbian girl kissing guys when drunk. It's not that deep imo.
Really not sure about this, feels like it's trying to be a lot more fun than it actually is
still waiting for a Gru gorls edit tho
I'm fully with Kehlani & Hayley Kiyoko - artists who actually have some sort of integrity unlike Rita, Cardi & Bebe who just want a hit. I'm surprised at Charli's inclusion, I thought better of her.
It's not like it's homophobic or anything like that but it's using kissing girls as a gag / selling point. Come on Rita, do better.
Straight in at #33 on Spotify and #47 on the Global Top 50 *.*
Katie from MUNA is the latest artist to speak out about Girls:
https://twitter.com/whereisMUNA/status/995116793650802689/
I see both sides of the argument with Girls. I do think queer women have every right to be upset and I think it’s unfair to say they’re overreacting as a minority who have to deal with their sexuality trivialised in the media and used for the male gaze without being taken seriously.
What I don’t think we should be doing though, is policing how women express their sexuality. Personally, I always kind of saw Rita as quite a sexually open woman (I mean, she actually says she’s ‘50/50’ in the song, can we dismiss that?), probably bisexual or fluid and the same with Charli. Cardi has openly admitted having sexual relations with other women, too. So I don’t think a person needs to have openly talked about it defined their sexuality in the media to have to sing about it. People discuss all kinds of topics in songs that they wouldn’t in real life. I think because this is a bit of a trash bop and is quite on the nose it’s under fire more than would be usually. Take Harry Styles’ music for example, it’s full of bisexual subtext and is seen as art despite him not really ever having discussed it in real life. So all in all I think it’s not as black and whitely problematic as it seems, though I can certainly see why it would raise some eyebrows.
One thing I do feel confident about is that this was not made with the male gaze in mind, I feel it was certainty intended for girls and gays about freedom and open and fun.
^ erm no @botchia
if you want to put it into basic terms it’s a bunch of white male songwriters using female sexuality as a gimmick and rita ora acting as a thick accessory. a person’s sexuality isn’t there to titilate and entertain?
imagine boiz if this sort of patronising song came from a straight lad attempting to ‘mince’...
I feel like it's not for us to downplay the views of the queer women who've said that they're personally affected by this song, and are worried about it being potentially damaging with (what they consider as being) a non-progressive message. That's their truth, and they should absolutely speak out about their concerns. What they're saying holds weight, because it's their experience.
I really wouldn't agree that Kehlani/Hayley etc are twisting the lyrics into something that they're not. In fact I think they're laying out exactly what the song is saying - "let's get drunk/high and kiss girls for the hell of it" (implied by references to marijuana/alcohol, "sometimes", "just for one night"). I'd say that's a message that promotes the idea of a girl kissing a girl as being a frivolous activity, which I wouldn't say aligns itself with the presumed intention of it being a celebratory anthem for fluid sexuality.
Obviously no one should expect the four artists to implicitly state what their sexuality is, purely to justify the lyrics they're singing. At the same time though, it puts a question mark over what angle they're all coming from and what the intended meaning behind the lyrics are. All in all it makes for a problematic song with outdated themes that is probably going to offend a lot of the people it may have been intended for. A mess!
Aside from all that, I'm not totally denouncing it. I enjoy the tune, it's catchy and I'll mindlessly bop to it, I'm sure. It's just I absolutely do feel that they could have come up with better/empowering lyrics (because presumably empowerment was the intention). That could have elevated it into something special/important in 2018, as opposed to it being a trashy mess.
I agree with what Joe said most I think, I get that the themes could be seen as a bit eh, and I don't think it's fair for people not of that minority to say whether or not they can perceive the song in the way they have. I also think though it shouldn't be necessary for artists to be completely explicit in a Hayley Kiyoko way to be able to sing about sexuality like this, it's great that Hayley for example is like that, but like Joe said we shouldn't police it too rigorously. Having said that the way that Rita explains it in the interview makes me feels like it's just "omg I ksis girls when drunk" as a selling point for the song rather than it being an empowering feminist song like it could be. It's kind of a basic "for the gays" so-called bop (I wouldn't even call it that but the point isn't really about the personal opinion of the musicality of the song).
It also must be annoying for these openly and explicitly queer artists to be kind of left as internet/blog faves and not being so mainstream when this will probably be a hit because it has Cardi B on it I'm sure say Troye Sivan would feel the same if Justin Bieber or Charlie Puth were to do a song like this and end up getting a hit because they're more mainstream, when what queer artists are trying to do is normalise their actual authentic experiences, but they get this trashy kissing girls when drunk song instead.
but come on...strip it back , rita didn’t write this in anyway it’s the creation of a group of white heterosexual males!
What is a shame is that people are using someone's opinion on a song to judge their entire personality.
Rita's interview bothers me more than the lyrics, they're not as problematic as songs like 'I Kissed A Girl' and 'Cool For The Summer' which have similar themes. I don't remember the same furore (except from Halsey ) about them?
tbf the lyrics of "I Kissed A Girl" are pretty horrendous looking back. But then, that feels confined to history for its awful stereotypes. In the same way, Girls is very likely to be confined to history very quickly because of its careless lyrics as well.
No writing contribution from Charli or Bebe, but Rita and Cardi have credits alongside 7 other writers (one being Ali Tamposi, while the other six writers are men).
The fact it took 9 people to come up with this song...
Oh for some reason I thought Charli wrote it I can't even hear her in the song tbh.
I did read that Ali Tamposi was the lead writer on this, I’m struggling to find the link though.
as the first WOMAN to come here and add my two cents, I really love this song. Yes, certain parts can be conceived as problematic but i truly get the free feel of it. And this is coming from the type of girl exactly who this song is about x
I genuinely love this song a lot and it is such a bop, I didn't really think much of the lyrics at first as I know its not that deep a song, it's really just about having fun and feeling free enough to be yourself, imo.
In saying that (and before y'all accuse me of being a sheep just bc of what my faves said, I'm not gonna boycot listening to it or go on a twitter rampage about how insensitive the song is) I do see their point v clearly but I also think its unfair to kinda invalidate that way of experiencing sexuality. I disagree with Hayley saying it's about only kissing other girls for the sake of straight men's gaze. So what if she or whoever only kisses girls when they're drinking? It doesn't mean every girl who likes girls can only express that when they're drunk, it's a lot to pile on one song.
However, there is a massive problem with how same sex relationships between women are portrayed in mainstream music. Like think about songs like I Kissed A Girl or Cool For The Summer, experimenting with girls is almost always shown as like a party trick, it's often in songs that are primarily about drinking, partying, being rebellious or whatever and sometimes it feels like an artist is only releasing music like that to be "edgy" and to get more people talking/sales and that's just not authentic.
Very rarely do wlw/mlm get real stories about same sex relationships the way straight people do, there aren't many gay love songs or breakup anthems out there which is why artists like Hayley Kiyoko and Muna or even Troye Sivan are important because they are authentic and are singing about feelings and experiences that are relatable to LGBTQ people. I think all Girls does is highlight how far away we still are to having more authentic gay music and artists in our mainstream, it doesn't mean its a bad song though or is "wrong". Kiss whoever you like, there doesn't need to be anything attached like?? No offense to Rita but she's not exactly the type of artist to carry a social issue forward and try to bat down problematic things the way Hayley or Muna might with their music, which is fine, not every song about same sex love has to be revolutionary to LGBTQ people, its just she's not helping matters which is unfortunate...
It is a fine line though as I do also realise, as a bi girl myself, it does play into some stigmas surrounding my own sexuality. I've once told someone I was bi before and got "oh I'm bi too, I have kissed a few girls when I've been really drunk before" as a reply and that I disagree with as it's not really the same if you're only doing it because you're drunk/for a laugh (which is how I think Hayley Kiyoko has interpreted this song) and not because you're attracted to another girl. Idk its kinda messy, I'm glad people have pointed out the negative trend with these kind of songs but I don't think Rita and everyone else's sexuality should be questioned as a way of determining how "valid" the song is, it's not fair to judge someone elses experience from a few lyrics in a song. Its just an example of ignorance really, Rita should probably have known better than to get a bunch of dudes to help write something like this with her though :')
I think this debate is ridiculous. I don’t recall any issues with Katy’s track or Demi’s so I don’t really see why the PC police are jumping on this track. It’s a catchy, harmless pop song about experimentation. Simple as.
I do understand where some points are coming from, and I think it’s mostly strengthened by the fact its written by all males, but I don’t necessarily agree with them. For me, it’s just another contradiction where people are saying that people’s sexuality can be fluid yet also still trying to stick labels on people (aka saying Rita is not actually bi). I think the points would hold more validity if she was going on about how wrong it was etc
The sound of the verses sound familiar, slightly 'Blank Space' in the melody maybe?
Its not about it being offesive, it's about what message it could portray. You're 100% welcome to say its just a catchy pop song about experimentation but just because that's how you see it, it doesn't mean that's totally accurate and anyone who sees it as something negative is wrong. It is iffy lyrically, you can't deny that really but like everyone commenting in here aren't queer women like Joe said so you really can't sit there and basically say that queer women who aren't comfortable with its message are ridiculous. It's not an issue that most of you are exposed to, that sort of representation isn't going to be something you identify with. Its just tiring to hear the same surface level themes surrounding female sexuality is all.
This isn't exactly groundbreaking is it?
I really think this could severely underperform and I, for one, am glad.
The message is beyond BLEH. I'd maybe consider be more forgiving if it was actually a decent bop but its not even that. After Anywhere, she's really ruined all momentum she had going for her. Shame really.
I hope it doesn’t underperform, I love it so much.
So infectious.
Okay this is the song of the year.
This is absolutely horrendous, what a mess
edit- why? piss poor attempt at making an empowering anthem, generic as f*** trap beat, far too much going on at once, complete throwaway features except from Charli who improves the song, proper dodgy lyrics
edit- it sounds like she's REALLY trying to be Charli and failing miserably
Rita has come out as bisexual.
Really pleased by for her but also feel a little sad that she may have felt forced to do it because of the backlash.
It's really sad how her coming out has been reported. Most headlines are stating that she is apologising for the song - are we as a society so against normal that we have to apologise for expressing ourselves through art?
I'm happy for her and I hope she's coping with this.
Yeah, that's quite sad that it would appear she's been 'forced' to do this and to even put a label on her sexuality if she was happy not doing so.
Also echoing that I'm pleased for her but it's ridiculous she has felt forced into explicitly coming out to justify the song.
All the headlines are 'Rita comes out but apologies for Girls'...I mean it's kinda sad.
As for the coming out thing, are we really getting a bee in our bonnet when a woman releases a song about kissing girls and then comes out as bisexual? Wasn't that ALWAYS a pretty clear cut thing that might be asked of you if you released that song as that person? Like, the first question that might come up?
This won’t do anywhere as good as Anywhere chart wise, but good on her for coming out, even if it was forced.
Stupid Kehlani
I agree with Jupiter - releasing this song and then having to "apologise" for it and come out as bisexual at the same time because others have reacted to it.. I am so confused, especially with her interview posted earlier. Is she bisexual? Does she just like to frolic with girls when drunk? Is it none of the above and she didn't even know the song was being written for her, she just blindly sings the song without any context? Was it just a song given to her in an attempt to get a hit and now she's attaching all this multi-layered meaning to it when it really isn't there and it's just a throwaway song? I have never been so confused about my feelings towards a song (and the most confusing part is the fact I am trying to formulate some sort of response when I don't really care about the song musically).
It's fun enough, cute and catchy but *in this song* to me she comes across as clueless to LGBT culture and is just latching onto it in a bid to get a hit and i'm sorry if that comes across as overly harsh, it's just my feelings and they are probably not warranted. For someone who is "attempting" to offer this song as some sort of bisexual anthem, she has gone about it in such a misguided way which makes it all seem very manufactured with her being the face of it and thus having to defend it.
I don't think it's right to interpret that statement as Rita Ora saying she is bisexual. Yes, she's saying she's had romantic relationships with both genders, and the song lyrics are obviously about same-sex dalliances. However, "bisexual" is still not a definition that she has placed upon herself at any point (which is her right, of course). Therefore I don't see either the song or the statement as being a "coming out" - and far less a forced coming out.
Her statement still deftly side-steps actually acknowledging what it was that people took issue with, with the songs lyrics, and what they can be seen to represent. She owns the lyrics as her experience, and that's fine... but beyond "sorry that how I expressed myself offended anyone" she hasn't addressed or acknowledged why there's been issues with the lyrical content. And that's the crux of this issue.
So for this to suddenly twist into an "I feel so bad for Rita for being forced to come out" I feel is pretty spectacular case of the point being missed and detracts from what this was all about - the problematic, tone-deaf nature of the lyrics as a piece of work, separate from "Rita's truth", but how they can be perceived (as non-progressive). That's all Hayley etc were getting at. I think it's gross that stans are now coming for Hayley and accusing her of having "forced Rita to come out".
I'm happy that she has been open and honest with us all, the song is not good though, not even just cos some people find some lyrics problematic, it is just not enjoyable to listen to.
When did pop become so serious and literal?
I'm confused about everything tbh. What's the actual problem that it's supposed to be? Is it coz of the lyric "red wine"? Genuine question, I'm honestly lost with it all and I just saw the lyric video for the first time to try and see where the issues may lie, but unless I'm interpreting it all incorrectly (quite possible) I don't see/hear anything that's made this worth blowing up the way it has?
I really do feel like it's been blown considerably out of proportion. The song is quite clear in it's message I feel? Like, isn't it obvious it's about a first encounter/one of the very first times with another woman/experimenting with someone of the same sex?
Everyone's first time is completely different and I'd be willing to bet that more often than not, a lot of sexual identities/experimentation start out "with a drunken kiss" or whatever as alcohol really changes comfort levels. Which brings me to Hayley's post as I feel it's very "my way of experiencing things is the only way it happens". Like, you don't need red wine to love another woman? Great. But some people do start that way and I'd be surprised if a lot of bisexual and gay stories didn't start out that way/as a drunken fling, which led to more etc..
Is that just a really naïve way of looking at things?
P.s. my post honestly isn't intended to offend, so apologies if it has, I'm just trying to find out all the issues with the song that has seemingly made it into such a big deal - despite it being a year old now (I've been away all weekend so not really had time to process or look things up properly)
Oh and this is nothing to do with Rita's apology and her supposedly coming out. I don't think it's fair that Rita stans seem to be attacking Hayley and saying she "forced Rita to come out" as I didn't get that from it at all.
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As for my opinion on the song, I'm loving it more and more. It's such a good, fun pop song.
how exactly has she been forced to come out as bisexual? she’s just deliberately released a cack-handed stereotypical song about ermmm being bisexual?!
i’m really flummoxed; muna/hayley/kehlani started this convo really...is it their fault she’s been FORCED out? you write something ppl find offensive and they will talk; there’s a lot of well reasoned argument online as to why ppl take such an issue with this (this pj post breaks things down lyrically quite well: http://forum.popjustice.com/threads/rita-ora-second-album.32437/page-484#post-6161597 )
I do see how the song is essentially queerbaiting and the lyrics should be in question but at the same time I’m with Jonjo on this. Sexual fluidity has been lauded and celebrated (and rightfully so) but when a heterosexual someone tries to portray that in art, it’s all of a sudden taboo.
If there is anyone to blame for this mentality it’s the trigger happy stan Twitter community for making this an ungodly mess.
The song is a little bit shit tho tbh :/
Old homophobic tweets from Rita and Cardi being dug up they probably weren't drinking red wine when tweeting them back then?
(I am trolling (maybe))
when they were yelling at the Rita stans for digging up Hayley’s racists tweets from years ago too...
Rita allegedly said this on stage last night: "I wrote this song as a celebration, if people can’t see that it’s their problem."
there are a lot of pieces in various online platforms / newspapers written by gay men defending rita and doing so really poorly (an awful piece tried to make a comparison between this entire song and a passing lyric in a little known harry styles track? ‘gaybaiting’ i think not...)
i get why a lot of the opinions on this have come from gay men (this is rita’s core/most loyal fanbase) but this is a song that speaks and resonates to another section of the LGBTQ+ spectrum in a really significant way.
there was a good opinion piece in the guardian from a non-hetro woman:
https://www.theguardian.com/society/commentisfree/2018/may/15/rita-ora-girls-got-bisexual-women-all-wrong?CMP=Share_iOSApp_Other
also rita’s comments from that gig if true are very tone deaf to fit with a very tone deaf song clearly sung by a tone deaf woman who seems to be totally unable to comprehend/respond/engage with criticism that has been thrown in her direction.
Enters the chart at #22 today.
I expected a top twenty debut so I'm kinda shocked - it's her first single since "Coming Home" to debut outside although that climbed up to #15 from outside the top 40. I don't think this will go top ten now unfortunately, the whole release strategy seems really messy and I imagine they're rethinking the music video due to the backlash.
With a name like Cardi B on it I was really expecting a top 10 debut. Top 15 at least!
I guess it’s the controversy that stopped it from debuting high.
True.
I’m not a fan of the song. It’s very poor and this is coming from a Rita and Cardi B stan.
The music video needs to be released soon.
It's still #22 on iTunes despite the reduction and slowly starting to fall down playlists on Spotify, I think with the artists on the single, the song itself should be performing better especially in the UK considering the instant airplay and the success of 'Your Song', 'Anywhere' and 'For You'.
Most reactions I have seen (particularly searching on Twitter) are saying that Cardi B, who has only very recently made homophobic and transphobic remarks, being on a song that is apparently lgbt friendly doesn't sit right with them so I'm not sure why her name alone warrants this being a big hit
I don't think shes been forced out like the opening lyrics are clear enough without having to make a statement anyway. I'm happy for her and it's always great to have another voice as bisexuality is something that is highly misunderstood at times. It is sad though that people did attack her and the other artists on how "real" their attraction towards girls is which is the part thats out of line, everyone has different experiences with sexuality, who is anyone to judge on who fits what label? Its gross. If Rita feels she is bisexual then she ks bisexual, it is as simple as that. As iffy as the lyrics are, you can tell they weren't written to offend so it does suck that she's felt she had to appologise for writing lyrics personal to her. Tbh its more the other verses by Charli/Bebe/Cardi that are problematic lyrically anyway imo
This has debuted at #3 on the Bubbling Under Hot 100. I hope for Rita's own sake that it eventually achieves a decent position on the main chart.
I guess its main chance to enter in the Hot 100 will be thanks to the music video! Beyond that, I struggle to see this doing particularly major things in the US, even with the Cardi B feature.
Her biggest hit in the US from this album!
The version we've all been waiting for...
https://twitter.com/GemmaReacts/status/999284849285484544
Gemma Collins Remix *.*
Missed opportunity if the GC doesn't have a cameo in the video
Rita's first televised performance of "Girls" is tonight on the final of Germany's Next Top Model.
This is really good! Much prefer this to both Your Song & Anywhere.
Only down three spaces to #25 in the UK this week.
She better have a BGT performance + video release lined up for this week. It's needed!
BGT performance just confirmed for Wednesday !!!!!!
Oh my God YES!!!
*performs a Your Song/Anywhere mashup* :')
US iTunes
1229. Rita Ora - Girls
Oops! Guess they won’t bother then pushing it over there then?
I think they should quickly move on to single 4.
I imagine BGT will save the song a bit in the UK.
I think this might just do a 'Body On Me' tbh.
Looking forward to the performance tonight! (It is tonight right?)
Is there a video of last night's performance?
Good but pretty bland. She oozes so much charisma though and I think the more spontaneous and fun and carefree sort of performances suit the song much more than a big production like this. She is a STAR though.
The performance made me notice the song a bit more and I'm getting slight 'Roar' by Katy Perry vibes from the song tbh, except not as euphoric?
Seems to have given the song a boost though
I liked the staging but I think it just felt a bit flat. It could've done with keeping Cardi's bit and having a dance break over it or something.
Nice to see it boosting the song back to #12 on iTunes. It would be perfect timing to drop the video now!
One thing I'm struggling to get about the uproar...
People were familiar with the live performance of it for months and the lyrical content, so why did it suddenly cause an outrage when the studio version of it appeared?
Video out tomorrow!
The green screen mess is coming :s
I LOVE the aesthetics of Rita's solo parts, I wish all four of them were able to film there together. Bebe's parts look *awful* and I'm not sure what they were thinking with that. The Rita/Cardi kiss will surely be making headlines!
OMG RITA KISSED CARDI
It is a fun video
wow, so horribly disjointed
Charli’s part is giving me vintage horror and I love it. The rest is a bit all over the place.
Bebe looks like an artist that died years ago and her team let Rita use any old archived footage for the video.
https://twitter.com/iamcardib/status/1004426014632574982
SCREAMING at 'Charlie STD x' !!
AMAZING
The video is really disjointed but I assume it's mean to represent the past, present and future?
Charli's parts in particular are really good (along with every part Rita is in too). In fact the only one I don't like is Bebe's parts. They're very shoe horned in, whereas they at least tried to tie the Charli and Cardi parts into it.
I like it enough though tbh.
The Rita / Cardi kiss *.*
Yeah it's the disjointed mess I expected which is a shame. I like Rita and Charli's bits but the rest just doesn't fit well.
The video is a mess, Rita and Cardi's parts look expensive and Bebe's is legit filmed on a Nokia brick. I wish the scenes all linked in a way. What a shambles
The video is very disjointed but tbh the only parts I don’t really like is Bebe’s part it just looks really cheap and her licking/kissing the mirror made me cringe . but the other parts of the video visually looked nice .
A hot mess! Wouldn't expect any less from Rita tho tbh
Rita looks nice in her scenes although the extras aren't helping her 'lipstick lesbian' image. I see the G.U.Y. extensions are back in vogue too.
Bebe looks terrible and doesn't even look like herself which again begs the question of why she's on it at all...if it's to build her brand and profile it really doesn't achieve that. Looks like she's dressed in a Boy George castoff.
Tove Lo, Charli XCX, Icona Pop, Elliphant & ALMA is much better than this IMO. A proper girl power anthem!
This whole thing is such a dramatic decline from 'Anywhere' isn't it?
Charli's section looks quite cool, but like others have said, all the scenes put together results in something incredibly disjointed and messy looking. What even at Bebe's part?
Charli XCX is not homophobic
She stated she wouldn’t ever go back to Uganda due to their anti gay laws and Charli plays a huge part in LGBT community!
I'm so confused. Lindsey didn't mention Charli, except to say at least she looked amazing or whatever.
Also, hasn't Cardi had tweets and things dug up with her being homophobic?
Cardi has defended homophobic comments, has jokingly or not (lol everything she says is a joke because she's so weird and zany!!!1121) said homo/transphobic comments, she has said it is the job of the LGBT community to educate HER, she has made demoralising comments even about straight girls... she is abhorrent.
I get people liking her music (well I personally don't because I'm yet to find a song of hers i properly enjoy) but how people can defend her personality and find her hilarious and sweet just because she makes a few... odd noises here and there(??) I will never understand.
I can't wait for her 2 year stint on the charts and the jewel of the public eye to be over. Then she needs to take time off and LEARN about humanity and its complexity.
Edit: forgot her racist tweets too. Is there any community this ICON11!! hasn't offended?
Cardi is absolute trash. On Love & Hip Hop her and her trashbag of a sister jumped a girl for her getting annoyed with Cardi that her man was cheating on her with Cardi :')
There's plenty of notable references to Cardi being ignorant, homophobic and transphobic on numerous occasions. It's fine if you like her, but facts are facts and the 'joke' and 'ignorant' excuses are lame as hell.
I just wish she'd completely disappear immediately. I can't stand her, she does my head in.
I know this was a bit of a misfire in the end and I see why but I'm still all over this. So anthemic and not even slightly getting old
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