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Tyler
post Aug 31 2015, 05:55 AM
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I'm at a point where I can't do it anymore. I can't talk about it on facebook, my family is over it basically. And my sister is out on the street doing heroin after promising me it wouldn't happen again.

I know it's a disease. I know she doesn't wanna be this way.

I kicked her out after finding out she was using again, that was the agreement. But, I feel so bad. No one else cares anymore. She's going to die. I know it is gonna happen soon.

I'm sorry for the thread. I don't know who to talk to.

I'm sad.
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post Aug 31 2015, 06:25 AM
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Sorry about that TyTy. sad.gif I cannot imagine being in that situation but if I were I'd probably do the same thing as you. You can't make anyone do something you want or think it's best for them, even if you know for a fact it is the right thing to do or be. They need to truly realise it themselves. Until then the only thing is to let them know you are out there and you care, basically. Not kicking her out would only enable her, I believe. Drug addicts do whatever they can to exploit people's weaknesses to get a fix so the only way is to be tough.
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post Aug 31 2015, 06:25 AM
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I'm sorry Tyler. That must be so tough and heartbreaking for you. I hope that your sister manages to overcome her illness.
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Tyler
post Aug 31 2015, 06:32 AM
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Tears guys, tears.

Thank you. Sobbing isn't helping but thank you for taking the time to reply.

She knows I'm here and would take her in if she were clean. But, I have a godson that visits regularly. I don't wanna live in that environment. It's hard. Life didn't come with instructions, did it?

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post Aug 31 2015, 07:40 AM
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post Aug 31 2015, 07:46 AM
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edit: Thanks for deleting that fucking idiotic and disgusting 'advise'.
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post Aug 31 2015, 10:29 AM
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Oh Tyker, that's awful. It must be one of the absolutely worst situations to be in and my thoughts are with you.
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post Aug 31 2015, 09:17 PM
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Yeah, I found that I'm basically up the creek without a paddle.
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post Aug 31 2015, 11:53 PM
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when people say tough love this is pretty muh the definition of it, but you're doing the right thing in my eyes. life is so hard and it hurts, but she will need to make the situation worse to make it better and that's the ugly truth of the situation. hopefully the damage she's doing sparks a reaction in her that outweighs her need for the drugs, but just stay strong. and also for your sake as well, please continue to stay strong and sober with yourself because you've done so well, and over the last few years you've changed so many things for the better.
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post Sep 1 2015, 01:05 AM
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I really don't know what else to add that hasn't been said already, especially by Lew. You are doing the right thing, completely. It's definitely tough love that's needed in this situation. You've given her a chance and she took advantage and if that was a part of the agreement, then well done for actually sticking by your guns and keeping to it. There is no room for you to go back on your word. You're amazing for even adding it onto your plate as it is. Just stay true to your words and like Lew said, unfortunately, things have to get worse for her, before they get better.

Thank you for venting on here and not going through with it on your own, Tyler! I hope you actually feel better yourself for letting it out to someone and not kept it all in! <3

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Tyler
post Sep 3 2015, 02:39 AM
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Thanks guys. You're awesome. Still no word on her but I'm doing better.

Stronger than yesterday. :')
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