January 4, 200817 yr You are TERRIBLY mistaken, she needs people around her that love her, and everyone around her has USED her since she married Federline. So you are right about one thing your post was indeed very sick and twisted. :) She needs Felicia, and her siblings. I get very frustrated with people that clearly have problems that have been told repeatedly that they need help but refuse to get that help, it is very frustrating and it reaches the point where enough is enough and people have to be left to their own devides regardless of the consequences, if she can't see the has problems and refuses to get help then what can anyone do ? nothing I find it hard to have any sympathy for people with problems but refuse help, where is her self respect ? I dont want to see her die but if she is setting out on that path no matter how much ppl tell her to get help then whatever will be will be if she ends up dead
January 4, 200817 yr I get very frustrated with people that clearly have problems that have been told repeatedly that they need help but refuse to get that help, it is very frustrating and it reaches the point where enough is enough and people have to be left to their own devides regardless of the consequences, if she can't see the has problems and refuses to get help then what can anyone do ? nothing I find it hard to have any sympathy for people with problems but refuse help, where is her self respect ? I dont want to see her die but if she is setting out on that path no matter how much ppl tell her to get help then whatever will be will be if she ends up dead You obviously have never had battles with an addiciton, or you would have a little more sympathy...I have never battled an addiciton but I have loved ones in my family that have, and for you to say something like that really offends me. I understand and agree with some of the points that you are saying until you reach the point of saying she just needs to commit suicide, NO ONE deserves that. The girl has been through alot, and is in one of the worst positions you can possibly be in when it comes to battling addiciton. Edited January 4, 200817 yr by Tyler
January 4, 200817 yr You obviously have never battles an addiciton, or you would have a little more sympathy. I understand and agree with some of the points that you are saying until you reach the point of saying she just needs to commit suicide, NO ONE deserves that. The girl has been through alot, and is in one of the worst positions you can possibly be in when it comes to battling addiciton. I have had an addiction but I realised that I was hurting my loved ones through it and got help for it and never went back down that road again, why can't she ? she has been self destructing for years with her erratic behaviour I have far more sympathy with poor people who can not afford good counselling or can't afford rehab than I do with a multi millionairess that can afford the best doctors, counsellors and rehab in the world I never have respect for people that can't and won't respect themselves, I will respect her when she respects herself and starts getting treatment for her problems
January 4, 200817 yr I have had an addiction but I realised that I was hurting my loved ones through it and got help for it and never went back down that road again, why can't she ? she has been self destructing for years with her erratic behaviour I have far more sympathy with poor people who can not afford good counselling or can't afford rehab than I do with a multi millionairess that can afford the best doctors, counsellors and rehab in the world I never have respect for people that can't and won't respect themselves, I will respect her when she respects herself and starts getting treatment for her problems Yes but those poor people don't have all of these "friends" that use them to get stories so they can sell them out in magazines. And at the same time she still supports her kids financially and pays a load to Kevin every month and you can tell she loves her kids or she wouldn't give a rats ass about wanting to keep them for just one night. She has a problem and she has to realize she has a problem, and that's hard to do when you have record labels execs and fame leechs on your back 24/7, so cut her some slack. Every addict has there own set of problems, and you should understand that if you have battled it yourself.
January 4, 200817 yr Yes but those poor people don't have all of these "friends" that use them to get stories so they can sell them out in magazines. And at the same time she still supports her kids financially and pays a load to Kevin every month and you can tell she loves her kids or she wouldn't give a rats ass about wanting to keep them for just one night. She has a problem and she has to realize she has a problem, and that's hard to do when you have record labels execs and fame leechs on your back 24/7, so cut her some slack. Every addict has there own set of problems, and you should understand that if you have battled it yourself. She brings the attention on herself though, she should keep a low profile, stay out of the public eye and concentrate on getting help for her problems, how could she not expect media attention when she goes out in public wearing no knickers and flashes as she is getting in a car ? how can she not expect media attention when she is shaving off all her hair ? how can she not expect media attention when she is out partying with Paris Hilton ? how can she not expect media attention when she is crashing her car etc etc etc sorry but he erratic behaviour brings press to her like it would bring flies to a dog turd, she should stay out of the public eye and keep a low profile and focus her life on getting help because the more erratic she behaves the more media attention she is going to get
January 4, 200817 yr She brings the attention on herself though, she should keep a low profile, stay out of the public eye and concentrate on getting help for her problems, how could she not expect media attention when she goes out in public wearing no knickers and flashes as she is getting in a car ? how can she not expect media attention when she is shaving off all her hair ? how can she not expect media attention when she is out partying with Paris Hilton ? how can she not expect media attention when she is crashing her car etc etc etc sorry but he erratic behaviour brings press to her like it would bring flies to a dog turd, she should stay out of the public eye and keep a low profile and focus her life on getting help because the more erratic she behaves the more media attention she is going to get I agree, but does that mean she should just commit suicide? No...those are just the signs of a lost young woman screaming for help and love.
January 4, 200817 yr Looking over the pics, VERY upsetting to look at as a fan :( just terrible! The worst I have ever seen her look, looks like shes in another world. Proper out of it! Soo soo sad, hope this is the kick up the arse she needs :(
January 4, 200817 yr I'm really glad you found the strength within yourself to say 'this is it, time to stop', with your addiction Vic. But, maybe not everyone is that strong. God, I hope Britney is, but you're right, it is so wrong to say that she's a lost cause and it should all be written off by killing herself, especially when you know first hand that a turnaround is possible. Surely if the press stories of late are to believed, and she is 'crazy', that accounts for most, if not all of her 'attention seeking behaviour'? Surely to God, they were cries for help?! I think Tyler has said everything I would ever want to in his replies to this topic, she needs help, she needs love, she needs some god-damn privacy, which the good people left in her life should ensure she gets and maintains. God bless Brit :heart: Edited January 4, 200817 yr by Andrewy
January 4, 200817 yr Unfortunely, the main problem is that Britney is 24:7 in the media, even when she's asleep, she's making headlines. It's ridiculous, this breakdown as such was due to happen, and as quoted by Britney "Now see everyone's watching, as she starts to fall".
January 4, 200817 yr The girl isn't going to get any better until she gets some real professional help. I seriously think she's bipolar. I wish I could meet her, I swear I would like hug her for an hour and tell her everything will be ok!
January 4, 200817 yr The girl isn't going to get any better until she gets some real professional help. I seriously think she's bipolar. I wish I could meet her, I swear I would like hug her for an hour and tell her everything will be ok! Hugs is the last thing she needs, all these sycophants around her are part of the problem not the solution, hugs and kisses and so on are the worst thing, what she needs is a Jeremy Kyle stlye earbashing to knock some sense into her I think the time has maybe come where she needs to be sectioned, if she is refusing to acknowledge her problems and / or is refusing to get help for them then I think that she should maybe be sent to some hospital by compulsary order where she will get treatment, help and counselling whether she likes it or not and only be released when her problems are adequately sorted to the point where it is safe to release her
January 4, 200817 yr I'm just wondering.. If Britney doesn't want to get help. WHY don't her parents/family do something ? She's with drugs/drinking and she's going even worse, but oh well is 'normal' that she doesn't wanna get help because of her mental situation. But while she's that bad,what is her family doing? NOTHING. So, why don't they say: 'Ok, Brit. It's time to stop now. You have to go to rehab or go to rehab'. ( like Amy Winehouse) And also they have to give her LOVE, cause it is what she really needs (and help). I want ALL the best for her and i hope she gets better soon,but,tbh this ain't going better :( :heart:
January 4, 200817 yr Hugs is the last thing she needs, all these sycophants around her are part of the problem not the solution, hugs and kisses and so on are the worst thing, what she needs is a Jeremy Kyle stlye earbashing to knock some sense into her But doesn't she seem to you like the kind of person who would just rebel further from that?! Obviously I have NO IDEA what she responds to, but I'd suggest that being yelled at wouldn't do her any favours, and would just make her push those people further away. I know if someone came up to me and started telling me I was a trainwreck/bad parent/headcase, they're the last people I'd want to listen to. All I'm saying is that if she'd been better looked after in the past, I don't think this situation would be happening.
January 4, 200817 yr I think the time has maybe come where she needs to be sectioned, if she is refusing to acknowledge her problems and / or is refusing to get help for them then I think that she should maybe be sent to some hospital by compulsary order where she will get treatment, help and counselling whether she likes it or not and only be released when her problems are adequately sorted to the point where it is safe to release her Unfortunately, I do agree with that.
January 4, 200817 yr But doesn't she seem to you like the kind of person who would just rebel further from that?! Obviously I have NO IDEA what she responds to, but I'd suggest that being yelled at wouldn't do her any favours, and would just make her push those people further away. I know if someone came up to me and started telling me I was a trainwreck/bad parent/headcase, they're the last people I'd want to listen to. All I'm saying is that if she'd been better looked after in the past, I don't think this situation would be happening. I think what he means is she needs to be shocked. Shocked back into reality. Make her realise her life is in danger, realise that if she dies she's no use to her kids anymore, etc...
January 4, 200817 yr I think what he means is she needs to be shocked. Shocked back into reality. Make her realise her life is in danger, realise that if she dies she's no use to her kids anymore, etc... And I think the people around her are too scared to tell her that because they want money.
January 4, 200817 yr I agree that she would just rebel some more. She didn't get a chance to do it yrs ago so she's doing it now. I'm glad that she didn't fail the drugs test but unhappy that the problem is then not recreational but mental. I feel that the hate for her is scary... I don't understand why other people with mental health issues e.g. Amy Winehouse get pitied, but not Britney. Is it because she's filthy rich? Money doesn't stop you from being mentally ill. Just because she can afford the help, it doesn't mean she'll go out and get it. I just don't get it. I can't stand Cheryl Tweedy. I can't stand Paris Hilton. I can't stand Kim Kardashian. BUT I would NEVER wish any of them to die. That is TOO much. Why all this HATE? It's scary. It just shows how much society likes to watch people rise and then tear them back down to their own low levels, instead of building themselves up. I just don't get it...why would it bring such great joy to hear someone committed suicide? How would her committing suicide be the best thing? Would you say that if it was your family member/friend? They just have to keep asking her to get help or commit her involuntarily, not just sit back and wait for her to die so they can die into her bank account.
January 4, 200817 yr I'm just wondering.. If Britney doesn't want to get help. WHY don't her parents/family do something ? She's with drugs/drinking and she's going even worse, but oh well is 'normal' that she doesn't wanna get help because of her mental situation. But while she's that bad,what is her family doing? NOTHING. So, why don't they say: 'Ok, Brit. It's time to stop now. You have to go to rehab or go to rehab'. ( like Amy Winehouse) And also they have to give her LOVE, cause it is what she really needs (and help). I want ALL the best for her and i hope she gets better soon,but,tbh this ain't going better :( :heart: She isn't drinking or on drugs. It would've shown up on her drug tests. Her family did force her into rehab before, but that didn't work. She isn't well & people saying she needs to wake up and stop, i don't think it works like that, i doubt she thinks anything is wrong. She hasn't got anyone and i mean no one to help her, please don't say she has Alli or Sam The best thing for Brit would be to move back home with her mother and sister & get treatment there. LA isn't the best place for her to be at the minute
