They go with her if it isn't within school times. They also find time for each olther - something so m any couples forget to do when children are around.

That's what I meant to say, thanks, megham.

It's just me, BT. When the kids were little, we had to make 'dates', just walking the dog or sitting and having a coffee and talking in adult freetime. With there being a big gap between kids, we just seemed to have the very little person stage for ages.