i hate how people always attack suicidal people and label them as cowards. depression is an illness and character does not willingly enter into it. you dont know what the **** kurt or anyone else has been through so no one has a right to judge anyone because of their methods of coping. im not saying suicide is right and that it doesnt hurt the people close to the person commiting it but it doesnt mean youre a weak person when you finally cant take any more. i respect that everyone has their own opinion but i think nearly all successful bands have worked hard and nirvana means a lot to a lot of people regardless of whether they worked harder than the chilis to get there.