Why not tell your closest friends? I'm guessing no one knows :unsure: Are you just not ready yet?

 

Well my town is so close-knit, if I told just 1 person the whole town would no. Plus I'm not really ready. I dunno if I'll ever be.

Well my town is so close-knit, if I told just 1 person the whole town would no. Plus I'm not really ready. I dunno if I'll ever be.

 

 

thats what where I live is like, even my closest friends would tell anyone, and it wouldnt be long before everyone would know, plus a lot of my family are half homphobic, so bleh :(

Well my town is so close-knit, if I told just 1 person the whole town would no. Plus I'm not really ready. I dunno if I'll ever be.

Oh I see, well my town isn't like that at all, my 6th form is but I'm past the point of caring now I think -_-

 

I know what you mean about not feeling ready, I'm still surprised I've told so many people! :o Seriously, a few weeks ago the thought still petrified me. -_-

yeah, youve done it really fast! :o it must be so good to tell people as well ^_^

 

are you going to tell your parents? :unsure:

yeah, youve done it really fast! :o it must be so good to tell people as well ^_^

 

are you going to tell your parents? :unsure:

It is, and yes I'm telling my parents but during/after uni. Not yet ^_^

aww thats cool, my friends were like 'if you are you have to tell your parents!' which is a factor of why i didnt tell them -_- :P

aww thats cool, my friends were like 'if you are you have to tell your parents!' which is a factor of why i didnt tell them -_- :P

Ignore your friends :lol: You know best how people are likely to react, and who you're ready to tell and who you're not ready to tell. You come first, then you order everyone else around in your head and tell people that way - at least I did ^_^ If your parents end up at the bottom of that list, then so be it, it's the best for you.

 

And remember, it's nothing to do with anyone else. You may end up telling people but at the end of the day it's all about you.

thats good adive, thanks ^_^ Its weird that Id feel more comfortable telling people that ive only begun being good friends with [even though ive known them for like 10 years] than people who ive been best friends with for like 5 years. Is it wrong that i think my friends are bad people :lol:

:lol: Its just nerves and aprehension

:lol: Its just nerves and aprehension

 

And you would know...how? :unsure: :smoke:

Through analysis of this coversation

Through analysis of this coversation

 

Yes, that MUST be it. :mellow: :smoke:

:lol: ha ha

:kink:

this is OT from what we were talking about, but does anyone else in here smoke? :kink:

 

I want to quit :(

thats good adive, thanks ^_^ Its weird that Id feel more comfortable telling people that ive only begun being good friends with [even though ive known them for like 10 years] than people who ive been best friends with for like 5 years. Is it wrong that i think my friends are bad people :lol:

Well that's all to do with your personal situation with your friends, personally I found it easier telling people I've only recently become friends with (with an exception) and I don't really know why. Maybe because I was scared my older friends would be more disappointed?

 

But like I say, that's do with you and your friends, which I know nothing about :P

 

Yes, that MUST be it. :mellow: :smoke:

:lol: :lol:

Ooh and now we can talk about trivial things if you want ^_^

Matty I quit almost 6 weeks ago now. It's not that hard.

Everytime im not having one im thinking of having one, its a circle of terror :cry: :lol: ive only been smoking for 3 weeks as well :lol:

 

Ill stop next week :( hopefully I wont have cancer by then -_-

 

just out of interest, what brand is the best? :P

Edited October 25, 200618 yr by Exodus

The trick is not to start! :P