December 9, 200816 yr It has been proved that anal stimulation does make a sexual act more pleasurable, and for men it provides a bigger and better orgasm :lol: not for everyone m8 some/many of us just arnt 'wired' that way... what many here are making the mistake is this... they assume we are all the same, WE AINT! PLEASE GET IT INTO YOUR HEADS, THAT SOME OF US DONT LIKE.HAVE NEVER TRIED/HAVE NO INCLINATION, HAVE NO FASCINATION, NO ATTRACTION to anal sex! good luck to those that do.... i get my kicks out of various ways i guess others dont find at all appealing, i can live with that! but WE AINT ALL THE SAME! it aint a case of right/wrong ... just DIFFERENT.
December 9, 200816 yr I'm quite stunned that you're the third person in this thread to suggest anyone said so! No one has ever said "everyone is secretly gay" or "people can turn gay" or anything of the like. What has been said is that the male prostate can be stimulated during sex. That is all. not actually true m8, both russ and scott have heavily infered that 'most straights like it' and 'they get off in secret' and 'how do you know unless youve tried it'.... the general suggestion is that you are unable to pass comment unless youve tried it, and that most of us straights are secretly getting off on it in private. in some/many it may well be true that stimulating the prostate during sex might add to the sexual experience (in straights), this is not a practice that many of us has any appeal at all.
December 9, 200816 yr not actually true m8, both russ and scott have heavily infered that 'most straights like it' and 'they get off in secret' and 'how do you know unless youve tried it'.... That's bull$h!t, Rob. The comments were that in prison, a very high percentage of rampantly supposed 'heterosexual' males suddenly discover their gay leanings. It's a phenomena I have no answer for - apart from, maybe, that most males and females have homosexual leanings anyway (a suggestion that seems to be popular with sexual psychologists, anyway) - whether these leanings are explored or not - or whether they're happy with this or not. And these homosexual acts are something these people would never, ever dream of acting upon in the outside world. As for the "they get off in secret" - again, Rob, I think you need to change your reading glasses - the discussion here was anal stimulation - in what paralleluniverse do you exist that anal stimulation is strictly a gay act? As I've stated before - if you'd have the balls to think outside the box - you'd find there's nothing WHATSOEVER gay in anal stimuli - to even suggest it is neanderthal. Your argument rests solely on your bizarre view that to place anything inside the anus instantly makes you a 'poof'. It's nonsense, Rob - but nonsense you seem completely unable to get your head around. As for the "how do you know til you've tried it" - Rob, you're an adult - how on EARTH can you comment on something you've never, ever tried? I'd never stand up in public and say how much I dislike eating sheeps testicles just because the idea hadn't appealed to me - despite many people saying they're a supposed delicacy. Now if I HAD actually eaten the aforementioned testicles - and I hated them - THEN I would stand up and say what a hideous thing they are and how vile they taste. The idea of eating them may not float my boat one bit - but I'm a try-anything kind of person - I'd obviously need to try myself before commenting....so.....until I'd tried them... yes, I can say I don't really fancy the idea... but HOW can I say that they taste rancid? The simple answer is - I can't. Surely? :rolleyes:
December 9, 200816 yr not for everyone m8 some/many of us just arnt 'wired' that way... what many here are making the mistake is this... they assume we are all the same, WE AINT! PLEASE GET IT INTO YOUR HEADS, THAT SOME OF US DONT LIKE.HAVE NEVER TRIED/HAVE NO INCLINATION, HAVE NO FASCINATION, NO ATTRACTION to anal sex! good luck to those that do.... i get my kicks out of various ways i guess others dont find at all appealing, i can live with that! but WE AINT ALL THE SAME! it aint a case of right/wrong ... just DIFFERENT. again, Rob - you need to understand that the idea of something is very often at complete odds with the actual act of doing it. Until you've 'done' it.... you really aren't in a position to add to this discussion. There are several aspects of sexual pleasure I'd have never even have thought would be entertaining.... but to completely close this off from your mind, to refuse to even think about trying it, whetever that might be - Christ, what a bore in bed you must be, Rob. Any type of sexual pleasure between 2 people should be at turns sensual, erotic, intimate - and somethimes wild, carefree, rampant, passionate - surely there have been sexual experiences you've had where inhibitions are left at the door, where it's wild, all-encompassing and frantic and animalistic? Sex is there to explore, it's not just to have 3 minutes of fun before sleeping to send you off like a baby, you know.
December 9, 200816 yr EDITED. sorry, i do not accept personal comments regarding clare as suitable for public debate. she is furious with you for bringing our private lives into this discussion. i must be doing something right, its nearly 3 years now! mushy.
December 9, 200816 yr That's bull$h!t, Rob. The comments were that in prison, a very high percentage of rampantly supposed 'heterosexual' males suddenly discover their gay leanings. It's a phenomena I have no answer for - apart from, maybe, that most males and females have homosexual leanings anyway (a suggestion that seems to be popular with sexual psychologists, anyway) - whether these leanings are explored or not - or whether they're happy with this or not. And these homosexual acts are something these people would never, ever dream of acting upon in the outside world. Which was pretty much my argument.... Whether these individuals are "gay" or not is open to conjecture (seeing as how the vast majority of these guys are incredibly hostile to gay or bisexual lifestyles), or maybe it's just that men are a bit like dogs when options are a bit limited.... They'll just hump whatever's available..... :lol: :lol:
December 10, 200816 yr That's bull$h!t, Rob. The comments were that in prison, a very high percentage of rampantly supposed 'heterosexual' males suddenly discover their gay leanings. It's a phenomena I have no answer for - apart from, maybe, that most males and females have homosexual leanings anyway (a suggestion that seems to be popular with sexual psychologists, anyway) - whether these leanings are explored or not - or whether they're happy with this or not. And these homosexual acts are something these people would never, ever dream of acting upon in the outside world. As for the "they get off in secret" - again, Rob, I think you need to change your reading glasses - the discussion here was anal stimulation - in what paralleluniverse do you exist that anal stimulation is strictly a gay act? As I've stated before - if you'd have the balls to think outside the box - you'd find there's nothing WHATSOEVER gay in anal stimuli - to even suggest it is neanderthal. Your argument rests solely on your bizarre view that to place anything inside the anus instantly makes you a 'poof'. It's nonsense, Rob - but nonsense you seem completely unable to get your head around. As for the "how do you know til you've tried it" - Rob, you're an adult - how on EARTH can you comment on something you've never, ever tried? I'd never stand up in public and say how much I dislike eating sheeps testicles just because the idea hadn't appealed to me - despite many people saying they're a supposed delicacy. Now if I HAD actually eaten the aforementioned testicles - and I hated them - THEN I would stand up and say what a hideous thing they are and how vile they taste. The idea of eating them may not float my boat one bit - but I'm a try-anything kind of person - I'd obviously need to try myself before commenting....so.....until I'd tried them... yes, I can say I don't really fancy the idea... but HOW can I say that they taste rancid? The simple answer is - I can't. Surely? :rolleyes: no it wasnt, it was made in response to the inference that most of my 'real blokes' get off on it.... what a waste of typing... i fully accept that SOME straights get off on anal stimulation...but its only SOME i simply dont accept that you cant pass a comment on something until youve tried it... guys... this is going around in circles, why tf cant you accept that EVERYBODY IS DIFFERENT? why cant you accept that ? so effing what if im missing out? I DONT CARE! the act does not interest me and others one bit, no everybody is bothered about being sexually adventurous! not everybody has the same sex drive... ok guys, we have all heard you, youve tried it and you like it :) good for you! and good for any other consenting adults that do wtf they both AGREE to do in private, but just accept that everybody has different desires, different urges, different sex drives and those of us who it has NO appeal for have also an equal right to say so! it aint about whos right and whos wrong ... its about seeing the others perspective and respecting their decision/thoughts. if jjn or anyone else finds it repulsive, then so fukkin what? big deal! live with it VIVA LA DIFFERANCE!
December 10, 200816 yr Please pinpoint specifics - I'm interested to know what's been 'over-exaggerated'... err... what? I suggest you re-read my post.... Whilst 'political correctness' may steer you to say this.... I think the cold hard facts re that, yes, unfortunately, a black person, whatever class, would tend to be more homophobic for 2 reasons... 1) he/she would almost certainly be more religious. and 2) the black 'role models' I mentioned before are never, ever gay friendly. Are they? If you can rubbish both my points there - please specify..... otherwise you're spouting off empty PC-riddled nonsense...aren't you? :D One of my best mates is part-Jamaican and she has outwardly admitted homophobia in Jamaica and indeed Jamaican-orientated communities within the UK is higher than average. She has highly recommended I don't go to Jamaica for my holidays! It's also a similar situation within Islamic communities purely on the basis of reason 1. Edited December 10, 200816 yr by ScottyEm
December 10, 200816 yr It has been proved that anal stimulation does make a sexual act more pleasurable, and for men it provides a bigger and better orgasm :lol: When god made man (or so the story tells...), he inserted the male G-spot in the anus. He balls'd up that one a bit, eh?
December 11, 200816 yr When god made man (or so the story tells...), he inserted the male G-spot in the anus. He balls'd up that one a bit, eh? :lol: :lol: :lol:
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