Perrie constantly bringing it up is a silly thing? This is the first time any of the girls have been this candid about it after Jesy did a WHOLE documentary which didn’t paint the girls in the best way.

Documentaries are very manipulative as a whole. This was one of the subjects I studied back in university - they’re made to create and often falsely portray a narrative and they’re presented in a way that 90% of people who watch them blindly believe everything that they watch.

I know many people who worked at modest and polydor and Jesy was a very difficult person to work with, constantly threw tantrums and was rude to everyone around her. Sure this all stemmed from insecurities, but we all have our own demons and it is how we deal with them and treat others that is what is important.

I will say that I do feel bad for Jesy still. Seeing all this come out about her must be eye opening and may feel isolating. I just hope that behind closed doors, she isn’t being defensive and pointing fingers like her family and team are and is looking inward somewhat.

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22 hours ago, shadow2009 said:

That comment by Jesy's Mum about the girls not being there for her was definitely a huge mistake. There really was no coming back from that.

Jesy just needs to stop talking about Little Mix. Period.

I can’t not go back to this. I think it’s just so true. Because it must be hurtful for them to hear it from the person's mother. It was peppered throughout the documentary is some more subtle ways but this was a big blow.

But it just doesn’t make sense, because Jesy had already done a documentary about how she was bullied and all 3 girls were in the doc literally crying cause they hated how Jesy was treated. So as Perrie said. There’s only so much you can do. You need to be able to want to help yourself too. But I think Jesy being the victim just came too easily for her.

I do wonder if when the week before the doc aired, and the girls had started to show her some love she may have thought, "shit, maybe some of the narrative I push in the doc was a bit misguided"

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6 hours ago, 365 said:

I can’t not go back to this. I think it’s just so true. Because it must be hurtful for them to hear it from the person's mother. It was peppered throughout the documentary is some more subtle ways but this was a big blow.

But it just doesn’t make sense, because Jesy had already done a documentary about how she was bullied and all 3 girls were in the doc literally crying cause they hated how Jesy was treated. So as Perrie said. There’s only so much you can do. You need to be able to want to help yourself too. But I think Jesy being the victim just came too easily for her.

I do wonder if when the week before the doc aired, and the girls had started to show her some love she may have thought, "shit, maybe some of the narrative I push in the doc was a bit misguided"

Unfortunately, I think she probably justifies it by telling herself she's just speaking her 'truth', which is fair enough, but I think her fans and family need to accept that the other girls have just as much right to share their side, and for the most part, I think the other girls have been pretty generous about letting Jesy spin whatever narritive she likes without any pushback, so I'm certainly not going to hold it against Perrie for finally reaching a breaking point with it.

Honestly after watching the documentary I think the blame lies with her family. They enable her and seem to have warped her mind to believe that any valid criticism about her is 'trolling' or 'abuse' or 'hate' and none of them seem to have sat down with her and tried to educate her. Even when her Mum was talking about the Boyz release and the backlash that accompanied it she still framed it as the media picking on her for no reason.