Everything posted by ta-ra*el~la
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Band Aid - Do They Know It's Christmas? (2024 Ultimate Mix)
I must be in the minority here, but my favorite version was Band Aid 30. Plus I think they should have made a Band Aid 36 for the pandemic (i.e. in 2020).
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Friday Chart Predictions
Go Apt! It has to be Apt, if there is any justice. Honestly, I can't see the appeal of the other main competitors. (Edit: Die With A Smile is also good, and should have been #1, but it's too late. Also, Sabrina Carpenter's stuff this year is overrated, and I'm saying this as a fan of 7 years standing.)
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Unpopular Opinion: The slow deflation of Taylor Swift
I guess I just want her to go back to her old style, which she is moving further and further away from all the time.
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Unpopular Opinion: The slow deflation of Taylor Swift
I used to be a really big fan of Taylor. But I feel her work has been getting worse over time. Tracking the number of chart toppers she had with each album (on my chart) this is what I got: 1. Taylor Swift - 0 2. Fearless - 7 3. Speak Now - 8 4. Red - 3 5. 1989 - 3 6. Reputation - 2 7. Lover - 4 8. Folklore - 2 9. Evermore - 1 10. Midnights - 1 11. TTPD - 0 Why is she seemingly getting more popular all the time?
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TaraElla Charts 2013 vs 2023 (Sep-Oct 2023)
Round 2 - 27 Sep 2023 1(8) Olivia Rodrigo - Vampire (2023) 2(7) Katharine McPhee - Beatiful Stranger (2013) 3(1) HSMTMTS Cast - High School Musical (2023) 4(3) Gabrielle Aplin - Be Yourself (2022) 5(2) Taylor Swift - Sweeter Than Fiction (2013) 6(4) Noa Kirel - Unicorn (2023) 7(5) Diana Vickers - Cinderella (2013) 8(-) Olivia Rodrigo - Bad Idea Right? (2013) 9(19) Anne-Marie & Minnie - Expectations (2023) 10(13) Samantha Jade - Firestarter (2013) 11(9) Carly Rae Jepsen - Part of your World (2013) 12(6) Demi Lovato - Tell Me You Love Me (Rock Version) (2023) 13(10) Halle Bailey - Part of your World (2023) 14(11) Hailey Rowe - My Boyfriend Is Gay (2013) 15(12) Miley Cyrus - Used to be Young (2023) 16(14) Megan Nicole - What Dreams Are Made Of (2023) 17(15) Meghan Trainor - Mother (2023) 18(16) Britney Spears - Perfume (2013) 19(17) Taylor Swift - I Can See You (2023) 20(-) Olivia Rodrigo - Get Him Back! (2023)
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TaraElla Charts 2013 vs 2023 (Sep-Oct 2023)
The rules: Every month, the current hits go up against a chosen 'retro year' in the 21st century, in a retro hits vs current hits chart battle. There are four rounds each month, one round per week. After all four rounds, another retro year is chosen. This month's retro year is 2013. Round 1 - 20 Sep 2023 1. HSMTMTS Cast - High School Musical (2023) 2. Taylor Swift - Sweeter Than Fiction (2013) 3. Gabrielle Aplin - Be Yourself (2022) 4. Noa Kirel - Unicorn (2023) 5. Diana Vickers - Cinderella (2013) 6. Demi Lovato - Tell Me You Love Me (Rock Version) (2023) 7. Katharine McPhee - Beatiful Stranger (2013) 8. Olivia Rodrigo - Vampire (2023) 9. Carly Rae Jepsen - Part of your World (2013) 10. Halle Bailey - Part of your World (2023) 11. Hailey Rowe - My Boyfriend Is Gay (2013) 12. Miley Cyrus - Used to be Young (2023) 13. Samantha Jade - Firestarter (2013) 14. Megan Nicole - What Dreams Are Made Of (2023) 15. Meghan Trainor - Mother (2023) 16. Britney Spears - Perfume (2013) 17. Taylor Swift - I Can See You (2023) 18. Taylor Swift - 22 (2013) 19. Anne-Marie & Minnie - Expectations (2023) 20. Pink - Just Give Me A Reason (2013)
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The UK and transphobia
I actually agree with your observation, to a large extent. But this is also a problem for us to fix. We, the ones who want reform, need to encourage a healthy and productive dialogue, and we need to find a way to achieve that urgently. Too many activists are just happy to say that we're right and they're wrong, and we're not changing anything, while LGBT rights are being taken away as a result of the failure of such activism. This is not good enough!
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The UK and transphobia
This is the problem that many won't acknowledge. And it is helping people like Trump and DeSantis win. Which is why we need to fix this problem.
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The UK and transphobia
Cancel culture type activism actively harms the causes it supposedly supports. This is why it should be rejected. Remember, marriage equality was not won this way. Seriously, the past decade has been a disaster from the view of progressive political strategy. It has produced nothing but support for Trump, DeSantis and people like them. Let's just rewind 7-10 years and begin again from there.
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UBI (Universal Basic Income)
I support a UBI in principle, but momentum seems to have stalled and fizzled out since 2020.
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Have your politics shifted?
Serious question: why do people hate Starmer? He seems decent. And you'll get a Tory government if he doesn't win.
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The UK and transphobia
Twitter really feels more biased towards the right overall these days. I guess the problem is that too many left and center people quit when Elon Musk took over. I think that was a mistake.
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The UK and transphobia
Gay marriage was at 25% around 2000. Trans rights are certainly past 25% now. The theory is obviously wrong for politics. In fact, the magic number for politics seems to be 60%, rather than the 51% normally assumed, because of the inertia for change. Gay marriage only started to pass in many countries when the general level of support was around 60% in the West (which was around the mid 2010s). The goal therefore is to get trans rights to 60%. Which tells us what kind of people need to be convinced, i.e. moderate conservatives. It won't be easy, and it will require a massive change in strategy. We're certainly far from 60% on trans rights. So it's time to work hard to change people's minds. We can't afford to just preach to the converted.
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The UK and transphobia
Perhaps look at Australia, where anti-trans forces have developed a bad reputation since April last year, when they forced the trans issue into an election where it had no relevance. Letting the transphobes destroy themselves could be a good strategy indeed.
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The UK and transphobia
Don't believe the 'progressive' media hype. Things have only gone downhill for trans people since ten years ago.
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The UK and transphobia
Basically these are the problems with trans activism as it currently exists: 1) too much philosophy, too little practical reality (and this is an issue with what I call the 'theory left' in general too) 2) too much cancel culture, too little negotiation 3) too little focus on actually educating people about trans issues 4) failure to represent the whole spectrum of views within the trans community 5) too much weird jargon, too few attempts to find common ground with regular people 6) too often represented by radicals who are trying to sell something more unpopular alongside trans rights This might sound harsh, but change is certainly needed. (Just imagine if Labour or the Democrats lost an election, and this was the post-election review)
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The UK and transphobia
How long have you been following this issue, and how closely? (Also, while I respect your socialist politics, please don't lump this issue in with capitalism. It has nothing to do with capitalism, and this distraction is not needed.)
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The UK and transphobia
As someone who actually fought for marriage equality (in the US and Australia it was a very hard fight unlike in the UK), and now wants to advance trans rights, my concern is the activists are doing it very wrong at the moment. The trans rights narrative looks nothing like the gay marriage narrative did, and I'm concerned that it is harming the cause. We have a proven successful model (almost every Western country has gay marriage now) but we are not following it. If Keir Starmer is right about something, it's that trans rights needs a reset. The whole movement probably needs to be rebuilt, from the ground up. The leadership probably needs to be completely changed too. I'm increasingly convinced that things went very wrong ever since the so-called trans tipping point (2014). Whoever is actually pro-trans, but said no to the current model back in 2015-18 or so (and there are many trans people in this category actually), should be given a chance to lead the movement out of its current wilderness. I think it would be best if the new leadership was solely made up of people who were already involved in trans issues in some way before 2013, to get rid of the recent baggage.
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The UK and transphobia
I'm still not convinced that Starmer isn't pro-trans (or that Corbyn or anyone else would be any better). The problem here is this is a Times interview, and the Times is a transphobic paper.
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The UK and transphobia
I don't use 'postmodern' to attack the left like right-wing people do. I differentiate between postmodern leftists and economic (class focused) leftists, for example. I tend to call the former postmodernists and the latter socialists. In the context of the 21st century West, socialists generally aren't involved in cancel culture, but postmodernists are, for example. I don't dismiss ideas because the right will attack them. Postmodernism is uniquely bad because its anti-science and anti-objectivity (which are bad things anyway) makes it an easy target for the right. Therefore if advocacy for a minority group is sometimes wrapped in postmodernist rhetoric, it is essentially an own goal. The marriage equality example wasn't specifically meant to refer to the UK. The movement was also led by liberals in America, Canada and Australia. Indeed, the far left almost put it in danger towards the end in Australia (which didn't get it done until late 2017). As for why there are so many TERFs across the political spectrum in Britain, I don't know. It doesn't appear to be that way in America, Canada or Australia. Keep in mind that most Blairites didn't turn out like JKR, though. And many Corbynites are really transphobic too, meaning it's not a left vs centrist thing. Perhaps it means that trans rights must be achieved through a broad coalition across the political spectrum in the UK (rather than relying on one party as in the US). This means the British trans rights movement actually has to be more moderate than their American counterparts in practice, as a result. A change of tactics is certainly needed for trans rights in the British context, given the recent failures.
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The UK and transphobia
I actually have to disagree that postmodernism has been helpful for trans people. The case for trans acceptance can rest on medical science alone. Postmodernism has only served to confuse things and allow the right wing to trivialize trans issues and paint trans identity as unscientific. Trans people were doing fine before people started arguing whether gender is a social construct (which is not necessarily relevant to trans people). More generally speaking, postmodernism is bad for social justice and good for right wing propaganda against necessary reforms. The fact is, you have to look at what's effective at changing things in real life, and old school liberalism still has the best track record. It was an old school liberal coalition that got marriage equality done, for example. Postmodernism would have made a mess of it. As a supporter of social justice and reformism, I feel like postmodern theories have often stood in our way, and provided ammunition for the right.
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Donald Trump releases a "charity" single
Why is everyone so upset about Meghan Trainor?
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The UK and transphobia
By the way, is India Willoughby right-wing? From what I see, I don't think so. I think Caitlyn Jenner is a Republican and she is the only prominent example of a right-wing trans person I know of. Are there any others (besides YouTubers that 99% of the general public don't know anyway)?
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The UK and transphobia
My take is, the next few years are crucial, but the 'progressive left' won't have the numbers to block bad things from happening. The liberals and centrists are the swing vote here, and winning them over is crucial. In the US, Biden is pro-LGBT, so as long as he wins in 24, nothing bad will happen federally. The red states are probably beyond saving at this point, and trans people might have to flee. By 28, hopefully the moral panic will have subsided, or at least the Republicans will have stopped nominating people like Trump and DeSantis. If not, then we just have to continue to fight. In the UK, the conservatives probably won't have enough time and capital to do anything bad before the election. As long as Starmer wins, nothing bad will happen for 5 years. However, it could be a stalemate for a while. The moral panic should die down within Starmer's 1st term. This means there might be room for trans rights reforms to begin again in Starmer's 2nd term in the early 2030s (most governments get a second term). In Canada, trans rights guarantees are pretty strong, so less worry there. However, the conservatives might win the next election, so a little bit of worry there. Similar situation in NZ. In Australia, the topic seems to not be part of the general political consciousness yet. Therefore the future is uncertain. But the current PM is generally pro-LGBT.
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The UK and transphobia
Basically, liberal = freedom comes first, pro-science, pro-objectivity postmodern = everything is about power, speech/discourse/knowledge is power relations, science/medicine skeptical (because of the power thing), also skeptical of objectivity (again due to the obsession with power) Sometimes, you just have to take a 'what you see is what you get' attitude to life, and stop thinking that power and oppression are hidden everywhere. Science and medicine, in particular, are not out to oppress anyone. There is no such thing as Biopower (as Foucault described). The very idea is an attack on science and medicine. It sounds similar to anti-vax theories to me.