Posted November 24, 200915 yr "Hi guys, Something i want to touch on.....The word "Bully" is a serious accusation & one that i find as low as being a racist...To have a human being be afraid of you, or to use intimidation to get your way is one of the lowest things a person can do...2day, im taking a stand for myself and others to speak out against bullying and to say that i encourage people who actually ARE being...bullied to step forward and seek help. Be bold and courageous! There are so many wonderful organisations to help & advise you...Also to those who FALSELY accuse others of being a bully for self gain, Think first! Its a very serious allegation." from twitter. EDIT: "Things have taken an Ugly twist for the Sugababes. We can reveal Keisha Buchanan is so fed up with Amelle calling her a bully that she is going to meet lawyers next week. The angry ex-Sugababe, 24, right, is determined to put a stop to the backbiting and wants to take legal advice. It comes after Amelle has repeatedly suggested Keisha, who was dumped from the band she helped create, had made her life hell through intimidation. Now Keisha's had enough. She said on Twitter yesterday: "To those who accuse others of being a bully for self gain, think first! It's a very serious allegation. A source says: "Keisha is really distressed. It's only her loyal fans that have stopped her from cracking up."" http://www.mirror.co.uk/tv-entertainment/m...15875-21848319/ I'd soooo love for this to be true! Edited November 26, 200915 yr by shakilover
November 24, 200915 yr She may not see her actions as bullying though. Verbal abuse that Amelle was/wasn't etting may have seemed like bullying to Amelle but harmless from Keisha's POV.
November 25, 200915 yr She may not see her actions as bullying though. Verbal abuse that Amelle was/wasn't etting may have seemed like bullying to Amelle but harmless from Keisha's POV. I find it facinating that you can go as far as stating what form the bullying took form, because as far as I know the remaining 'sugababes' have not specified what/how the bullying was. Although they have been very good at bleating on about how unbearable it was. I will not be manipulated by people who want to tell half stories in order to justify their actions (orchestrating the departure of the founding member). I find it very strange that the girls are willing to drone on and on about how terrible Keisha was and how as a result Amelle had to go to rehab but yet have not given any details of the actual bullying. If it were true they might as well- the accusation of bullying is just as damaging as would be the actual details (i'd imagine).
November 25, 200915 yr I find it facinating that you can go as far as stating what form the bullying took form, because as far as I know the remaining 'sugababes' have not specified what/how the bullying was. Although they have been very good at bleating on about how unbearable it was. I will not be manipulated by people who want to tell half stories in order to justify their actions (orchestrating the departure of the founding member). I find it very strange that the girls are willing to drone on and on about how terrible Keisha was and how as a result Amelle had to go to rehab but yet have not given any details of the actual bullying. If it were true they might as well- the accusation of bullying is just as damaging as would be the actual details (i'd imagine).Well it wouldn't have been physical bullying would it? :huh:
November 25, 200915 yr Well it wouldn't have been physical bullying would it? :huh: Exactly. You're asking questions and undertaking guess work ...process of elimination because Amelle and Heidi have put us in that situation. If you look at all the articles and interviews given by Amelle there is no tangible explanation of what the bullying was. Keisha apparently made her life hell - nearly ruined her career, made her want to run away, ...if you can say all that stuff which is quite powerful talk why not just say what she actually did do .....or say as you are suggesting. The public can be easily manipulated and at this point in time that is what I think has happened. No one is holding Amelle and Heidi accountable for making quite serious allegations- yet with no substance.
November 25, 200915 yr This is something that has annoyed me in general about sugababes on the whole, through all the line up changes they never fully speak out and say what exactly did happen, it always falls down to bits and pieces of stories where the fans and the public are more of less left to come up with their own conclusions. I would love them all o do interviews and them all explain why certain line changes happened and what really did happen but i doubt this will ever happen. The more these kinda stories continue the more damage it does to the sugababes brand, as with so many line up changes i think its gone to the stage where many people feel who is gonna go and be replaced next.
November 25, 200915 yr 4.0 are pupets of the management now, we'll never know the truth unless Keisha speaks out. Mutya left of her own acord. She wasn't happy, she wasn't enjoying it anymore and she left. The official line of 'left to persue a solo career' is just PR w*** from management. Siobhan was bullied and left because of it. Her story has come out, mainly when she did promo for Ghosts. Mutya's story came about when she did Real Girl around the same time. We should start to hear Keisha's side when she starts the promo for her album
November 25, 200915 yr 4.0 are pupets of the management now, we'll never know the truth unless Keisha speaks out. Mutya left of her own acord. She wasn't happy, she wasn't enjoying it anymore and she left. The official line of 'left to persue a solo career' is just PR w*** from management. Siobhan was bullied and left because of it. Her story has come out, mainly when she did promo for Ghosts. Mutya's story came about when she did Real Girl around the same time. We should start to hear Keisha's side when she starts the promo for her albumWhat's to say Keisha won't lie? Nobody wants to be called a bully, so she'd lie to cover herself up. No one will ever know the truth.
November 25, 200915 yr Just because Keisha doesnt think of it as bulluying doesnt mean it wasnt though. No one other then Keisha, Amelle and Heidi (and probably important management type people) will know exactly everything but Keisha is hardly likely to admit to being a cow if she now wants to forge out a solo career.
November 25, 200915 yr keisha was a bully she just a bull$h!t and always wanted to be main one shes just........ GLAD SHES GONE!
November 25, 200915 yr jade is better anyways She might but great but she doesn't touch Keisha's vocals imo.
November 26, 200915 yr Oh Keisha is so pathetic, people can say what they want but Siobhan called her a bully, and I dont care what the Keisha stans (hate that word) say I still highly doubt Heidi would pick Amelle over Keisha if she wasn't doing anything wrong.
November 26, 200915 yr Has Amelle ever actually been quoted or heard saying "Keisha bullied me"? It seems Keisha is blowing things out of proportion based on stories the press made up. It's not like with Siobhan who has openly said Keisha bullied her.
November 26, 200915 yr I can see Keisha's point. HOWEVER... Siobhan has been calling Keisha a bully for 10 years and Keisha did nothing but deny it (which she had to)...SOOOO, I'm sure there are people out there thinking "why didn't Keisha do anything about Siobhan accusing her if THAT was false too?"...It kinda supports Siobhan's accusations even more. Anyway, I think Keisha is overreacting a little. I mean, Siobhan would call Keisha all the names under the sun. I even read an interview where the guy asked her her thoughts on Keisha and her response was "her name alone makes me want to be sick" (rotfl). I mean, Amelle has said/done NOTHING in comparison to what Siobhan has done over the years.
November 27, 200915 yr Well with siobhan there was bullying By both Mutya and Keisha. Teenage girl stuff. They kinda froze her out. K and M had a secret language that siobhan eventually learned to understand but was banned from speaking [it caused so much trouble it was banned from the studio :lol:] What happens at the local high school is worse than what they did to siobhan. She took it badly, but it's nice that they made peace now. It was a long time ago. They were teenage girls doing what popular teenage girls do.
November 27, 200915 yr but she admitted they did not get on well. It's not like she has totally denied that this weren't good. She admitted that much on her twitter.
